Things happen

I am not sure how to put this any other way. Things happen.  But if you can get through that, then everything is going to be fine.  It will be worth it.

Your choice.

Shel Silverstein says it all.  There really is not anything else I can say.  People will tell you their opinions. You won't want to hear them but they wrill be said.   All you can do is listen.  Be kind to them.  Then just smile and walk away.  Cause at the end of the day the only one making decisons for you is yourself.

Rules of a Gentleman.

Today while procrastinating like a boss, I stumbled across this blog called Rules of a Gentleman.  While these rules are directed towards men, I do believe if you change the right words it can apply to women as well.  Some of these rules are quite interesting, and from a females point of view I can tell you that these rules are excellent.  So I threw on (quiet) a few of them.  Go ahead take a look.  These can benefit you in the future, no matter male or female.  You do not have to read them all, but if you have time, I highly recommend it.  They make some pretty excellent points.

Stop stressing, start laughing.

With a paper due by 2 p.m. today, one due by 10 a.m. tomorrow, and a bunch of personal issues going on, I am on the verge of a panic attack.  If you have ever witnessed me having a panic attack you know to either a) stay away from me at all costs or b) try to make sure I do not have one.  Well have no fear, Pinterest has been helping me relax.  How?  With their humor section.  A laugh here, a chuckle there, and sometimes the occasional giggle, and basically I am good as new.  I know with papers, work, and midterms coming up, everyone is starting to stress and freak out.  So here is my foolproof remedy to calming down and staying positive.  Take ten minutes for yourself and just look at some funny pictures.  I have put a few I have found humorous here to help you get started.

Fragile.

Trust. A five letter word.  Something so hard to give yet so easy to break.  The problem with trust is that everyone thinks that you will automatically give it to them.  But that's just the thing.  Trust is not something you are just given.  You need to prove you deserve a person's trust.  What's worse then thinking that someone automatically deserves trust is the way they play with it.  It is not something you can play with.  Trust is a person's feelings, and feelings are not a game.  Trust is so fragile that once it has be broken it can never be whole again.  No matter how hard you try, it will never be fixed.  Someone might say you still have their trust, but remember it will not be like it once was.  That person can never fully trust you again.  Believe me I would know.  If I told you I trust you please do not abuse it.  I take trust very seriously and it is extremely hard for me to fully trust a person.  Then again, it should be hard to trust someone.  So if you have earned trust, take it seriously.  Please.  It is not a joke.

Stop sweating the small stuff.

We all have things that bother, annoy, or upset us.  That is called life.  It is not perfect.  It is not always going to give you what you want.  The problem with people is that they focus on the little things that hurt them.  The things that are not perfect.  But life is not made up of the little things.  You need to look at the big picture.  Life is not perfect, but that is what makes your life worth living.  The imperfections.  That is where you mess up and learn from those mistakes.  These lessons are what you need to take away.  Not the the pain or the heartbreak.  Only the things that they taught you.  So do not sweat the small stuff.  They are just clouds on your way to sunshine.  Your life is going to get better.  It always does.  You can only go so far down before you have to come back up. I'm not promising it will be today, or tomorrow, or next week.  It is going to take time, but do not give up while you wait.  Put a smile on your face and deal with it.  Life will get better, but until that day comes, just fake it till you make it.  I am not promising you happiness right away, but I am promising you happiness.  Just stick with me until that day comes.  Life is not always to give you what you want.  So just roll with the punches.  Stop focusing on the negative little things and start focusing on the positive things.  Cause that is life, and it will go on with or without you.  I have come to realize that it's better to just go with life then to fight it.  I suggest you do the same.

Laughing passes the time.

This morning getting out of bed was one of the hardest things I have had to do.  My bed literally fought with me.  I finally managed to wiggle away, but boy was it a challenge.  Since then I have kind of been floating through the day waiting for it to be over.  I have spent a lot of time on Pinterest and came across some hilarious things.  So here is your mid-day humor!