Stay true to yourself.

Makeup, hair spray, fake tan, flat stomach, tight clothes.  All this is what makes a woman pretty.  Well according to society it does.  Also some men believe that this is what makes a female pretty.  What do I say?  I say screw society and screw those men.  Be who you are.  Be true to yourself.  Hang around people who accept you for who you are.  If you're curvy, embrace it.  If your hair is frizzy, embrace it.  If you're white, embrace it.  Embrace who you are.  Because only you can be you.  If a man cannot accept you for how you look, well then you deserve better.  Find someone who calls you beautiful instead of hot.  Someone who thinks you're gorgeous when you have no makeup on.  Who is not afraid to take you out in public.  Who thinks you look great in a pair of sweats and his hoodie.  Find a man like that, and you have a keeper.  Hold onto him because those are the guys that are one in a million.  If your guy is not like that, leave him.  If your friends cannot accept you for who you are, leave them.  The world is full of millions of people, and chances are there are people out there willing to accept you for the person you have grown up to be.